Jealousy is a heart disease that every human has it. Ask yourself first,” why are you jealous?” Let’s find out and how to handle the jealousy.
For instance, I am jealous because they are smarter than me, they are rich and I am poor, they are successful and I am still struggling, my lover has a lot of friends to hang out and so on.
This is what you need to do !!
Change your jealousy into an action in a positive way. For example, why they are smarter than you. Because they like to spend their time to read something useful and being knowledgeable. You are actually able to do that, right? so why not! try to do the same thing till you become as smart as them or even more.
Now, you are jealous of your lover because he/she has a lot of friends to hang out. I know why you might be afraid of losing someone you love. You avoid not to get hurt. That’s normal. But, if you love someone then you need to trust them. Trust them if they are always loyal to you. “The trust’ will leave your mind in a peaceful because you always have a positive thinking. The positive thinking always ends with a happy ending, no matter what happens.
Jealous to think why other people get more successful than you? yes, you have a right to be jealous. But I like to build a relationship whom I am jealous, not to put them as an enemy because I like to learn from them how to get success just like them or even more successful than them.
Face and fight your own fear! that’s the root of jealousy. You need the courage to do that. For example, you are afraid of losing someone you love, then you have to learn how to prepare yourself to lose them. They are not the only one that you love, you also have your family, friends still need to be loved.
Keep in mind ‘Jealousy is showing your weakness’ not your power! People will respect you if you show them the power instead of the weakest.